refreshing holiday at the sea

During the December holiday (it's the same as summer vacation in the
U.S., school closes the beginning of December and reopens mid-
January) I had the opportunity to visit the ocean. Many Namibians go
to the coast at this time of year to escape the heat inland, up to 40C
+! It was nice to have cool, misty days. Even when the sun was out,
the ocean breeze was cool. You have no idea how refreshing coming
from blazing sun and 42C in Mariental! Enough about the
weather...the experiences are more interesting as I...

*visited the seal colony at Cape Cross
*went sea angling with Jaco and his dad and was the only one to catch
any fish
*made sand angels instead of snow angels
*spent Christmas with Jaco's family: parents, sister, cousin, and Ouma and Oupa who
remind me very much of my grandparents with their wit and smart remarks
*enjoyed relaxing afternoons at the beach with more fishing and
making potjiekos (a pot meat and vegetables cooked in a sauce on a fire)

Most importantly, I rested, relaxed, and enjoyed the company I was in
for the holidays! I was able to speak with my family on the phone a
few times, so they did not seem so far away from my holiday at the
sea with Jaco and his family.

I hope that each of you reading this had a blessed Christmas and a
happy New Year!! All the best for 2007!

PADDED ENVELOPES a must

Since July I have not been getting all of the letters or cards that
have been sent my way. I have had friends email and say, "Did you
get my letter, note, card yet?" and then months later I still go to
the mail box with hope. Any piece of mail is greatly appreciated, so
it is frustrating to know that many are lost somewhere between here
and there. When my roommate, Megan, went home for Christmas several
friends asked her if she had received the cards they had sent long
before Christmas. Nothing.

However, there is one monthly parcel that has never failed to reach
our post box: a padded envelope of People magazines. Both Megan and
I have received all the padded envelopes that we know of that have
been sent over. One of mine did go through Japan, just arrived here
later than expected. We've learned that the padded envelope gets
here better than a regular envelope. The moral of the story: even
if you are sending a letter or a card, please put it in a small
padded envelope to give it a better chance of arriving in PO Box 908.

Check back later for a post about my holiday here in Namibia.

Merry Christmas Everyone!

Yesterday I heard some jazzy Christmas song about snow on the radio and I nearly started to cry. I thought of my parents' cozy living room with the Charlie Brown Christmas tree. I thought of snow and cold outside and warmth of the wood stove inside. Here it is really hot and each day is filled with lots of blazing sun, not the Christmas weather that I am used to. However, this is Christmastime in Namibia. I'm spending Christmas here instead of going home to Wisconsin. I just want to wish all of my family and friends who read this a very merry Christmas and a happy new year! Enjoy the holidays and the winter weather!

so much to be thankful for...

*real turkey
*cranberries, not the ones in a can
*a kitchen that smelled like my mom's
*a Namibian family to share the American Thanksgiving with

It's all true.

A real, American style Thanksgiving was celebrated
with turkey and all of the fixings here in Namibia. We (myself and
fellow PCVs) prepared the whole feast for Jaco's family. Everything
turned out great, many thanks to our families in the U.S. who emailed
recipes and suggestions...a dad's special mashed potatoes, a mom's
special rolls, etc, etc until the whole table was full of delicious
food! We (PCVs and Namibians) all enjoyed it immensely!

reflecting on the year

You never know exactly what is going to happen in your life from year
to year. Particularly, if you move someplace new. For me that move
was to a whole new country! My first year as a Peace Corps volunteer
has been so much more that I ever could have expected or imagined!
On November 7, 2005, I said my final goodbye to my parents at the
security gate of CWA (Central Wisconsin Airport). All of us in
tears, but I think that all of us knew this was exactly what I was
supposed to be doing. After eight weeks of pre-service training I
was sworn in as a true PCV. I even gave a speech in Afrikaans
thanking the trainers and staff for all that they shared with us over
those eight weeks. I never thought that I would speak in front of a
room full of peers, Namibians, and diplomats in a language that I
only began learning two months before!

Since moving to Mariental and beginning work at the TRC in January I've:

*found two homes away from home here where I know I can go if I need
anything at all or just to hang out
*explored a rare lily pan that only forms if there is enough annual
rainfall
*survived a flood here in desert and helped clean up the aftermath
*met a incredible guy, Jaco, and started dating a couple months later
*experienced life on a farm in the Kalahari Desert
*spent Easter on the coast in Luderitz
*travelled throughout central Namibia on a ten day camping adventure
(Oanob Dam, Gross Barmen Hot Springs, Omaruru, Swakopmund, and the
Namib Desert)
*had a visit from my mom and sister and got to share parts of Namibia
with them (Etosha, Swakopmund, Okahandja, and Anib Lodge in the
Kalahari Desert)
*hitch-hiked to the far northwest corner of Namibia with Dani to
paint a world map mural in a library at a village school
*visited Epupa Falls and then spent one night on an Oshiwambo
homestead outside of Ondangwa
*worked with Megan and Dani to paint 3 world map murals (2 schools
and 1 library)
*attended numerous school functions such as performances, athletics,
a funwalk, and an awards ceremony
*assisted with training teachers to facilitate holistic HIV and AIDS
clubs
*visited 27 primary schools with my counterpart, Heidie, to observe
classes, offer support & feedback to teachers, promoting reading
development, promote the TRC & available resources, and help the
teachers to understand learner-centered education better
*started a Girls Club at a local school with Dani
*collaborated with other volunteers to put on a leadership/women's
empowerment conference for Girls Clubs in the south of Namibia
*helped plan & prepare the training for the next group of volunteers

I had no idea what my life and my work would actually be like here,
but now that it has been a year I can honestly say that I have no
complaints! Yes, there are plenty of challenges along the way, but
it is all worth it and the good far outweighs the bad. Even though I
am a foreigner here, I feel much less like one than I did a year
ago. If I have experienced so much in this year, what will 2007 bring?

Girls Club End-of-Year Celebration

This was the first year that a grade 8 Girls Club was available at Danie Joubert in Mariental.  The aim of the Girls Club, facilitated by Dani and I, was to build self-esteem and self-awareness, strengthen and empower girls to make educated decisions, and to address issues of concern identified by the girls.  Session topics included, but were not limited to, self-esteem, respect, friendship, team building, relationships, women’s health, HIV and AIDS, future, goal setting, careers, role models, stress, trust, nutrition, exercise, parents/families, self-defence, drama/acting, t-shirt making, and women’s art.  Six girls attended the Southern Girls Conference in June to promote the development and networking of girls clubs throughout southern Namibia.  Two sleepover parties were held this year with themes of self-esteem and friendship/overcoming differences as well as many other fun activities.  Girls Club has been a rewarding and growing experience for all involved this year!

At the End-of-the-Year Party the girls participated in activities that reflected what Girls Club meant to them through out the year.  “Most Moments” gave each girl an opportunity to share one moment from girls club that was most...educational, creative, funny, ridiculous, etc.  One participant said, “The most educational moment for me was the HIV and AIDS session.”  Another girl said, “The most growing experience for me in Girls Club was sharing with others and learning from each other.”  As reported from the girls, the “most wonderful” part was the sleepover and the “most funny” session was self defence.  The girls then had time to write in their journals about what the most meaningful aspect of Girls Club was to each of them.  This activity was followed by “Strengthening Our Sisterhood” in which each girl selected a wrapped gift as a representation of what Girls Club meant to her.  All of the girls shared what their gift meant placing the gift back in the middle of the circle.  Then each girl selected one of the gifts from the centre based on what they would take away from Girls Club for the year.  Everyone received a surprise to unwrap as a token.  

Girls Club officially closed for 2006 with a certificate ceremony.  Following a reading of Maya Angelou’s poem “Phenomenal Woman”, the girls were presented with certificates that read, “This certifies that ______ is a phenomenal woman for participating in the Danie Joubert Grade 8 Girls Club.”  Each girl also received a copy of the poem “Phenomenal Woman”.  After many photos, hugs, thank-yous, and a few tears the Girls Club came to a close for 2006.

miss, my takkies are asking some porridge

WHAT?!?!?! One of the girls really did say this to me yesterday at
Girls Club. I was so confused. I know that takkies are sneakers or
running shoes and porridge is this thick cream-of-wheat staple food
here. Why were her takkies "asking some porridge"? At first I
wanted to say, "What are your takkies asking of the porridge?" The
sole was starting to come off of her shoe. I still don't know if she
wanted some porridge to stick her takkies back together, as porridge
can be quite sticky, or if the separation or the sole and shoe looked
like an open mouth that was hungry for porridge.

"Miss, this one, she just swore my mother." WHAT?!?!?! I had to
turn to Dani for translation on this one. Basically she was speaking
poorly of the other girl's mother or dishing out some "yo mama..." talk!

Needless to say, the girls were quite full of energy at Girls Club
and ready for our topic, exercise. We discussed muscles, why you
need them, and the heart as a muscle. We showed all of the girls how
to take their own pulse. Then we headed outside for a little
practical exercise. There was much laughing and talking on our
fitness walk, but after a fast paced game of frisbee they were sweaty
and exhausted. We had the girls check their pulse after the walk and
then after the frisbee game. Girls Club wrapped up with a
calculating beats per minute, analyzing the difference in our pulse
as activity increased, and then answering their further question
about exercise.

The takkies that were asking some porridge made it through this
session of Girls Club.